Reality Security Inventory

The Reality Security Inventory, also known as the Personal Style Inventory, represents a cutting-edge approach to psychosomatic assessment. It goes beyond merely identifying typical thoughts, feelings, and behaviors to serve as a transformative tool. By focusing on ten primary areas of psychosomatic needs, it offers tailored feedback, providing participants with a clear understanding of their personality and its impact on personal and professional aspects of life. 

Originally designed as a behavioral identification tool, the Inventory has evolved into a medium for self-discovery and transformation. It facilitates safe self-exploration, fostering both short-term and long-term internal changes.

Completing the Inventory is straightforward and akin to looking into a mirror, reflecting participants' self-perceptions. It consists of three sections: selecting preferred occupations, answering true-false questions about typical human behavior, and answering similar questions about one's own behavior.  After our office receives the results, the consultation with a Master trainer and/or certified coach will be shared in a 2-hour consultation.

The insights gained from the Inventory are profound, offering a comprehensive view of one's self-image. This insight provides opportunities for recognizing life patterns and considering previously unrecognized options for change. As participants embark on the journey of self-discovery, they develop a deeper appreciation for themselves and others, leading to natural transformations in attitudes and behaviors towards self-mastery.

Reality Security Inventory is no longer paper and pencil. Reality Security Inventory is now online.

 Psychosomatic coaching and training are designed to address programmed thoughts, feelings, and behaviors rooted in the past—patterns originally formed for survival. What the Reality Security Inventory psychosomatic assessment makes visible is not only what a person thinks and how they behave, but also why they feel the way they do, why these patterns exist, and how they continue to influence emotional and behavioral responses today. As individuals work with this knowledge through coaching or training, the changes they experience naturally extend into both their personal and professional lives; the process remains the same, while the participant’s goal provides the focus. Through this intentional, experiential work, individuals develop emotional maturity, expand their sense of well-being, and move from a Survival Mindset to a Choice Mindset—consciously releasing outdated patterns and engaging their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors with clarity and free will.

Psychosomatic Coaching

Definition of Reality Security Inventory Psychosomatic Coaching:

Reality Security Inventory Psychosomatic Coaching is a distinct methodology that fuses the principles of emotional intelligence with detailed feedback from the Reality Security Inventory psychosomatic assessment, which measures ten core areas of psychosomatic needs. This combination creates a foundation for authentic emotional literacy—an understanding not only of what a person feels, but why they feel it, how those emotions shift between their Usual state and Stress. The client-coach relationship is a collaborative, interpersonal experience in which a certified coach uses questions, reflection, and guided exploration to connect a client’s core values, emotional and thought patterns, and lifestyle with personal and professional goals.

As coach and client examine how the client’s psychosomatic needs express themselves under both Usual and Stress conditions, the client begins to see the internal logic of their insecurity: the programmed patterns of thought and behavior that once protected them but now limit their choices. Through this exploration, the client learns to recognize and interpret the emotional signals tied to each psychosomatic need, uncovering the origins of both security and insecurity. With the coach’s support, the client then designs personalized interventions that interrupt old reactions, shift long-standing habits, and build new thoughts and emotional responses through free will choices that are aligned with core values and belief systems.

This process empowers clients to reprogram their internal operating system with conscious intention and free will. As they grow familiar with the mechanics of their emotional and thinking landscape, they develop the ability to transform stressful moments—those old triggers of insecurity—into opportunities for stability, clarity, and grounded action. The ultimate aim is not just resolution in a given moment but the cultivation of an enduring capacity to convert insecurity into inner security, making emotional steadiness a natural outcome rather than a distant aspiration.  This provides the foundation for growing and deep resilience.

This richer understanding of the self becomes a springboard for more purposeful decision-making, healthier relationships, and a stronger sense of agency in both personal and professional life.

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Psychosomatic Training

Definition of Reality Security Inventory Psychosomatic Training:

Reality Security Inventory Psychosomatic Training offers a psychosomatic perspective that centers each individual’s uniqueness in its learning. It strengthens personal and interpersonal emotional intelligence and literacy by helping students understand how their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are shaped by the ten psychosomatic needs measured in the Reality Security Inventory psychosomatic assessment. Because the assessment reveals how personality expresses emotions, thoughts, feelings and behavior differently under both Usual and Stress conditions, students gain a clearer picture of the internal forces that drive their choices, reactions, and communication patterns. This perspective makes emotional literacy not an abstract concept, but a pragmatic skill rooted in the student’s own lived experience.

The training explains how each person’s value system and belief structure generate distinct emotional intensities, which then influence thought and behavior patterns —sometimes constructively, sometimes defensively. By learning to connect thoughts to emotions, and emotions to behavior, students discover how these components shift when Stress activates old programming patterns of thoughts and behavior. This self-awareness becomes the foundation for recognizing how insecurity forms and why specific stressors lead to predictable reactions. It also allows students to notice the subtle but powerful differences between who they are in their Usual state and who they become when Stressed.

Exercises and steps to build retention anchor this knowledge base by guiding students to observe, map, and investigate their own thoughts, emotions, and behavioral patterns in real time. They begin to see how past experiences created automatic responses that once felt protective but now limit their ability to navigate challenges effectively. As these patterns become visible through self-awareness, students learn to reframe their thoughts, interrupt their behaviors, and choose emotional responses aligned with their current values and desires rather than their outdated conditioning. This begins the gradual process of reprogramming the internal habits that no longer serve their ability to change and grow.

With this shift comes greater flexibility: students begin to notice similar patterns in others and interpret emotional triggers with far more clarity and compassion. This broader awareness strengthens communication, reduces misinterpretation, and supports more stable personal and professional relationships. In the long run, the training gives students the ability to transform stress into a signal for conscious adjustment rather than automatic reactivity. It cultivates emotional steadiness, internal security, and a greater sense of agency—turning emotional intelligence into a lived, self-directed practice that supports performance, resilience, and authentic connection.

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Reality Security Inventory and Psychosomatic Consultation

Individual Consultation and Reality Security Inventory psychosomatic assessment provide clarity for your moving forward.

• Find your individual causes of stress - just for YOU
• Pinpoint YOUR emotions, thoughts, feelings, and behavior under both Usual and Stress conditions 
• Identify your natural talents/skills under usual and stressful conditions
• Understand how to leverage emotional intensity to support change and transformation

Includes:

• Reality Security Inventory Psychosomatic Assessment
• Corresponding Workbook
• 2-hour consultation to debrief results

There are 2 choices to take the First Step towards transformation:

First Choice:  Schedule a 30-minute complimentary consultation using the Schedule a Session with Margo tab below.  She will explore how the Reality Security Inventory can help you achieve personal growth at home and/or work. During this consultation, Margo will guide you through the 6-Step Individual GrowthMap process to explain how this transformative tool can work for you. 

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Second Choice: For those who desire a unique understanding of your personality under both Usual and Stress conditions now, the Reality Security Inventory psychosomatic assessment is your answer. Start this engaging process immediately by choosing the Complete the Reality Security Inventory tab below. Once completed, you'll be scheduled for a two-hour consultation to discuss your results. For this option, click “Complete the Reality Security Inventory" to register for your psychosomatic assessment and consultation. 

Take this opportunity to discover your uniqueness in a way you have never experienced before. Explore life-changing possibilities as you learn emotional self-mastery at home and work. 

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